Parenting
is important because parents can prepare and protect their children with the
knowledge to know how to survive in this world. They shouldn’t use punishment
and rewards to control their children. Children can rebel if parents push them
over the edge. Natural consequences can be negative or a positive outcomes as
children develop. Parent should teach their children about responsibility and
respect them for their decisions they make.
Some
parents use punishments and rewards to manipulate their children to get them to
do what they want. The more the parents try to over-control their children, it
won’t be as likely that they will have an influence on their children. Sometimes
parents who feel like they failed as a parent when their children were younger
try to make up for it by giving them gifts, money, and other things. It’s very
disrespectful for parents to use awards to make their children feel better or
to ease their guilt of what they did to their children. For example, a parent
shouldn’t be buying them something as an apology. This shows the child that the
parents don’t care about their feelings.
Children
will rebel if their parents humiliate or mock them in public. Parents shouldn’t
make all the decisions for their children if they are old enough to make their
own choices. It will not teach the children to resolve their problems and they
won’t get to learn how to handle the solution the correct way. If the parents
are harsh while teaching their children a lesson, it won’t work because the
children will feel inferior to their parents. The children will also be afraid to
know what to say or do without disappointing their parents. When parents put
lots of pressure on their children to do what they want them to do, the
children sometimes stop listening and obeying them. This shows a lack of trust
with the parent and the children won’t feel comfortable telling their parents
anything. Children will also lose the ability to make decisions on their own
because they didn’t get an opportunity to practice making choices for themselves.
Children
will have many opportunities to make decisions for themselves and learn from
their mistakes. It’s important for parents to make sure their children are not
doing dangerous things to put their lives at risk. Parents can’t always rescue
their children when they are struggling, and it can be difficult for the
parents to see them suffer. The parents can provide support and convey confidence
in their children. Sometimes, parents should not ever allow to their children
to make extreme choices for themselves that can affect them in the long run. For
example, parents allowing the child to stop going to school because he doesn’t
like his classes.
Overall,
parents can encourage their children in what they are doing well. They can
respect the children’s decisions, even if the disagree themselves. Parents can
express their appreciation as they see who their children become. This will
help their children learn to take responsibility for their actions and will
help them know of how to be successful.
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